Thursday, November 22, 2012

Control Your Minds

Once Wise Man was walking from one town to another town with some of his disciples. While they were traveling, they happened to pass a lake. They stopped there and Wise Man told one of his disciples, "I am thirsty. Do get me some water from that lake there." The disciple walked up to the lake. When he reached it, he noticed that right at that moment, a bullock cart started crossing through the lake. As a result, the water became very muddy, very turbid. The disciple thought, "How can I give this muddy water to Wise Man to drink!" So he came back and told Wise Man, "The water in there is very muddy. I don't think it isfit to drink." After about half an hour, again Wise Man asked the same disciple to go back to the lakeand get him some water to drink. The discipleobediently went back to the lake. This time too he found that the lake was muddy. He returned and informed Wise Man about the same. After sometime, again Wise Man asked the same disciple to go back. The disciple reachedthe lake to find the lake absolutely clean and clear with pure water in it. The mud had settled down and the water above it looked fit for drinking. So he collected some water in a pot and brought it to Wise Man. Wise Man looked at the water and then he looked up at the disciple and said, "See what you did to make the water clean. You waited long and the mud settled down on its own and you got clear water. Your mind is also likethat! When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time. It will settle down on its own. You don't have to put in any effort to calm it down. It will happen. It is effortless"..

♥ Moral ♥

Similarly, when you are angry, givesome extra time. You can calm down inside. This means not just controlling your outward behavior, but also controlling your internal responses, taking steps to lower your heart rate, calm yourself down, and let the feelings subside.

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Who is a Wife?

There was a rich merchant who had 4 wifes. He loved the 4th wife the most and adorned her with rich robes and treated her to delicacies.He took great care of her and gave her nothing but the best. He also loved the 3rd wife very much. He's very proud of her and always wanted to show off her to his friends. However, the merchant is always in great fear that she might run away with some other men. He too, loved his 2nd wife. She is a very considerate person, always patient and infact is the merchant's confidante. Whenever the merchant faced some problems, he always turned to his 2nd wife and she would always help him out and tide him through difficult times. Now, the merchant's 1st wife is a very loyal partner and has made great contributions in maintaining his wealth and business as well as taking care of the household. However, the merchant did not love the first wife and although she loved him deeply, he hardly took notice of her. One day, the merchant fell ill. Before long, he knew that he was going to die soon. He thought of his luxurious life and told himself, "Now I have 4 wives with me. But when I die, I'll be alone. How lonely I'll be Thus, he asked the 4th wife,"I loved you most, endowed you with the finest clothing and showered great care over you. Now that I'm dying,will you follow me and keep me company?" "No way!" replied the 4th wife andshe walked away without another word. The answer cut like a sharp knife right into the merchant's heart. The sad merchant then asked the 3rd wife, "I have loved you so much for all my life. Now that I'm dying, will you follow me and keep me company?"
"No!"replied the 3rd wife."Life is so good over here! I'm going to remarry when you die!" The merchant's heart sank and turned cold. He then asked the 2nd wife,"I always turned to you for help and you've always helped me out. Now I need your help again. When I die, will you follow me and keep me company?" "I'm sorry, I can't help you out this time!" replied the 2nd wife. "At the very most, I can only send you to your grave." The answer came like a bolt of thunder and the merchant was devastated. Then a voice called out : "I'll leave with you. I'll follow you no matter where you go." The merchant looked up and there was his first wife. She was so skinny, almost like she suffered from malnutrition. Greatly grieved, the merchant said, "I should have taken much better care of you while I could have !" 'Every man and woman has four wives or husbands. What do these wives signify?'
*THE FOURTH WIFE The 4th 'wife' is our body. We love our body day and night. In the morning, we wash our face, put on clothing and shoes. We give food to our body. We take care of our body like the fourth wife in this story. But unfortunately, at the end of our life, the body, the first 'wife' cannot follow us to the next world. As it is stated in a commentary, 'When the last breath leaves our body, the healthy color of the face is transformed, and we lose the appearance of radiant life. Our loved ones may gather around and lament, but to no avail. When such an event occurs, the body is sent into an open field and cremated, leaving only the white ashes.'This is the destination of our body.
*THE THiRD WiFE Our 3rd wife ? Our possessions, status and wealth. When we die, they all go to others.
*THE SECOND WiFE The 2nd wife is our family and friends. No matter how close they had been there for us when we're alive, the furthest they can stay by us is up to the grave.
*THE FiRST WiFE The 1st wife is in fact our soul, often neglected in our pursuit of material, wealth and sensual pleasure..

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Mother's Love

Son: MOM! MOM! MOM! Why
Are You Crying?
Mom: It's Nothing.
son: MAMA! MAMA! MAMA!
Why Are You Crying?..........
Mom: It's Nothing Baby.
(Next Day He Looks In Moms
Purse And Find A Letter From
Doctor Saying She Has Cancer
And Only Has A Few Days To
Live)
(Next Day On The News It Says
They Found A kid Dead Left
With A Note Saying "Mom I
Killed Myself I'll Be Waiting For
You In Heaven.")

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Unknown's Love

There were two 17 years old teen.
A boy & a girl.
They both met online.
After time they had grown to
become bestfriends.
The girl lived in Dhaka and The
boy lived in Bogra.
They always turn to each other
for help. And they would make
each other feel so much better.
Both of them had troubled lives.
But they always had each other.
ONE NiGHT
They were talking online.
Girl : I think I should tell you
something.
Boy : yes....?
Girl : i love you.
Boy : i love you too!
Girl : no..not...not the way i love
you
Boy : ..........
The boy went offline and the girl
cried and thought she had
spoiled everything..
But later that night, the boy rang
her mobile & she answered.
Girl : hello..?
Boy : hey...it's me.
Girl : hey listen i'm really sorry.
Boy : no! Don't be sorry. I love
you too.
Girl : really ? But we won't be
able to see each other . My
parents would never let me go at
this time. I have all my exams.
Boy : I know...me too. And my
parents' journey to Dhaka
---THEY BOTH SiGHED--
Girl : we.....we could wait . A few
years and we could be together.
Boy : I can wait. I've got to go
now .i love you.
Girl : i love you too.
---THEY BOTH HANG UP---
For the next few years they had
stayed together. And their love
grew.
One day speaking online.
Girl :I've finished all my
exam..And i have enough money.
Boy : Oh My God. Are you being
serious!?
Girl : YES ! When are we meeting?
They both planned the journey &
a few days later.
The boy went to the bus stop....
The girls bus was due to start
journey.
AND BREAKiNG NEWS CAME ON
THE BUS STOP TV
"The bus from Dhaka to Bogra
had accident and all the people
riding there died."
*The boy broke into tears*
The boy went home & got a knife.
That night the boy was found
dead in his bedroom.
When his parents found him.They
also found a picture of girl in his
hand.
AND A SMALL NOTE :
"OUR LOVE WAS TOO LATE "
The girl's parents where clearing
out her room.They found her
diary :
Inside it they found a picture of
the boy and note underneath it...
"i WiLL SEE HiM EVEN iF iT KiLLS
ME "
BOTH OF THEM DiD SEE EACH
OTHER iN THE END.

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Butterfly Love Story

Two Butterflies
Were In Love.
1 Day They
Decided To Play
Hide N Seek,
They Fixed A Flower & Decided
That,
Tomorrow 1 Who Will Come
First & Sit
On This Flower
Will Love The Other More.
At Morning The female Butterfly
Came
Very Early & Waited For The
Flower To Open..
When It Opened,
she Was Shocked To See That,
The male Butterfly Had Died
Inside It,
Bcoz he Was Waiting Since Last
Night
To Tell Her…!!
“HOW MUCH HE LOVES HER”

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